Jayapataka Swami:  These how to two questions are difficult to answer! Because everything we do is supposed to make us more Krsna conscious. So how to how to? How to be humble, How to be tolerant? How to, how to question. How to get to be humble? How to control the mind? How to not hurt? So how to? As soon as someone asks how to? What is devotional service for? To develop our natural Krsna consciousness. So if someone was trying to please guru and Krsna. Now someone else may not be pleased. So we don’t want to offend anyone. Are they feeling offended in any way? And then we can talk to them if they are feeling offended. Otherwise, we don’t really care what others think. We don’t want to offend anyone, but we want to please guru and Krsna. So, if you have the right attitude, if you want to do the things properly, then naturally you will achieve all these ‘how to’.