Jayapatākā Swami: Generally, Mātājīs, ladies, serve their husbands, and the men they help their wives. But apart from this, one should be very careful because ladies they have this affection and that affection can take other forms. Śrīla Prabhupāda said that ladies are like fire and men are like butter and if the fire and butter get together the butter melts. This way, if a woman has to cook for some other men then there should be a proclaimed distance maintained, a formality.
01-January-2022, Sridhama Mayapur, India